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    March 5, 2021

    Redefine Sex

    Sex can be boring. The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines sexual intercourse as “heterosexual intercourse involving penetration of the vagina by the penis.” Woefully this definition negates the multiple variations and dimensions of sex.

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    February 10, 2021

    SHOUTOUT LA Interview

    Check out our interview with SHOUTOUT LA.

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    August 10, 2020

    Start Talking About Sex to Have More Sex

    Perhaps it is because I’m a Scorpio, the astrological sign known to be very sexual, that I find myself teaching and writing about sex. Talking about sex is part of my job description as a couples counselor. Sex, from my perspective, is a powerful,

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    May 24, 2020

    Process One, Solutio

    In this stage our similarities, more imagined than real, lull us into the trance of primordial union. You become me and I become you, but soon the loss of self will bring panic and resistance. When we see that each process gives way to a larger self

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    Scheduling Sexy Time: How Couples Can Rebuild Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships

    February 13, 2026
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    Turning Housework Conflicts into Connection: How Couples Therapy Helps Heal

    November 6, 2025
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    The Recess: A Tool for De-escalating Conflict in Relationships

    August 21, 2025
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    Clitorial Attention

    June 5, 2025
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    Learning to Dance, Lasting Love, & Pope Francis

    May 8, 2025
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