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    August 10, 2020

    Start Talking About Sex to Have More Sex

    Perhaps it is because I’m a Scorpio, the astrological sign known to be very sexual, that I find myself teaching and writing about sex. Talking about sex is part of my job description as a couples counselor. Sex, from my perspective, is a powerful,

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    May 24, 2020

    Process One, Solutio

    In this stage our similarities, more imagined than real, lull us into the trance of primordial union. You become me and I become you, but soon the loss of self will bring panic and resistance. When we see that each process gives way to a larger self

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    December 26, 2017

    Resolution to Re-Vision Your Relationship

    If you’ve ever wondered why so many New Years resolutions fail, you’re not alone. Part of the reason is doing it alone; the other part is futurizing. A goal is by definition something placed in the future. Therefore it never happens.

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    December 26, 2017

    Re-Visioning Video Guide

    In this 30 min. video Thea and I walk you through step by step one of the most transformative exercises you can do for your relationship by imagining it into the love affair of your dreams.

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    The Recess: A Tool for De-escalating Conflict in Relationships

    August 21, 2025
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    Clitorial Attention

    June 5, 2025
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    Learning to Dance, Lasting Love, & Pope Francis

    May 8, 2025
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    The Zero Negativity Challenge: A Path to Connection

    April 1, 2025
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    Wedding Presence

    February 26, 2025
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